The Rant…

27 Oct

This is very different from the content that I usually  feel inspiration on, actually, this is something that I wish I were not writing about, but there is an overwhelmingly huge part of me that needs to get it out!

NSA stands for No Strings Attached

No not the movie, the relationship that many involve in. And guess what it is a lie, its imaginary, its unreal it does NOT EXIST. I do not know where this term came along; I do not know why people use it. To me it devalues a relationship, it degrades sex.

Yes, we live in a busy world, one with fast transportation, fast food, fast communication, but is there such a thing as fast sex?

If you are not a hooker, than NSA should not exist. I know this is vulgar, and I do not want to stay on this topic, but I am seeing it everywhere.

It use to be college, a fling that only 20 something’s were involved in but now it is progressing to highschool! And it needs to stop.

Our lives are filled with a fast- paced- beat.

This does not mean that intimacy needs to be fast, that does not mean that we should forget the amazing feeling of getting to know another person, to love another person, to share moments of life with someone.

Why do we need or make love, sex, so fast? There is no reason, yes carnal yearnings are a part of being a mammal, but we are human. That means we think, we ruminate, we have the ability to encompass patience.

To me in a world where everything comes fast, sex has lost its value. And no, I am not talking about economic value, because we are not living in the 15th century. I am talking about the emotional and psychological value that sex once had.

Let us go back to that place. Why not? Lets change the dialogue. Because real intimacy comes from getting to know someone, just like you get to know a friend, so should romantic relationships be.

So I am saying lets put NSA in the trash because it’s NOT REAL, whoever created this term did it so people can treat sex like a pastime between strangers, and hey maybe you get out of a long-term relationship and you thinkthat’s what you need. Guess what it’s not.

Empty sex, is like dead air, there is no point to it. (This is a lesson!)

And I think that both men and women, actually, this is nothing to do with gender or race, this is about being human, life should have meaning, and the activities we participate in, the things we say, the people we have relationships with–it should have meaning, because life is about purpose, and if you destroy value then–take a step back–because every person, every life has a meaning, so don’t hurt yourself or others.

Love is everywhere, it’s all around us, do not cheapen it, and do not forget you deserve happiness, and you are valuable.

Everything in life is really a lesson; see the positive, see the silver lining.

Make every encounter,

Every word,

One of value.

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4 Responses to “The Rant…”

  1. carolynpageabc October 27, 2012 at 4:05 am #

    Hey; I agree with you however; there are many who do not..!
    We can only be true to ourselves. It matters little what others do; providing you are not injured or included.

    Not being a young person anymore, I cannot appreciate the current mindset, and understand it must be difficult (in so many ways). Be true to your own standards and principles. Hold them near, and others who have those same thoughts will find solace with you… A brave post from a brave individual…..

    • cookie200007 October 27, 2012 at 7:44 am #

      Thankyou Carolyn—you are so sweet:) It was hard writing this its not usually my kind of thing—but I think its more a mental, emotional injury….and it can be very hurtful…but thankyou so much you are so right…..we have to find people who have the same beliefs when it comes to these matters 🙂 You just made me feel so much better I was embarressed about posting this!

  2. Alarna Rose Gray October 28, 2012 at 3:20 am #

    It strikes me as a quick fix in a world that has no time to feel. Not my thing, but I think I get why it is for some.

    • cookie200007 October 28, 2012 at 1:18 pm #

      Alarna you said it perfectly!Your words—yes totally not my thing—and it sucks because for so many people it is—no time to feel, ah true true true!!!

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